Etiquette & FAQ

Empress Lumi

Etiquette & FAQ

Empress Lumi
let’s prepare, shall we?
What is a session with you like?
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How do I know you're real / reputable?
Fair question. I understand you want to ensure safety, accuracy, and enjoyment, so let me help put you at ease with some quick verification information.

The websites where you will find me require identity verification, including ID and photo verification, at the following sites: Onlyfans, Manyvids, Slixa, and Tryst. I am active on all these platforms. All of these websites have my same contact information, links, and website listed.

I’ve invested a lot into building my networks and reputation in the industry. I have worked with verifiable, professional photographers and fellow colleagues in-person, who are tagged and linked throughout my social media. Feel free to take a look at my Twitter and Instagram to get a sense of my presence within the broader community.

You can also find various user-submitted testimonials here on PrivateDelights.

Discretion and Privacy
Mutual respect, privacy/discretion, and safety are my top priorities.

I correspond with clients on a secure encrypted server. If privacy & discretion are also your priority, I recommend you email me from an encrypted Protonmail email address. It should take under 2 minutes to sign up for a free account, and this ensures end-to-end encryption.

You will receive an appointment reminder via your preferred contact method the day before our appointment.

How should I get in touch?
My Booking Form is a great template to get started! It is designed to give me the kind of introductory information I need to ensure we are compatible and can have the best experience together. Consider it your first impression.

If you’d rather not fill out my Booking Form, simply email the same required information to

Please try to book in advance, with a minimum of 48 hours, to avoid disapointment. This allows time for screening, reserving the space, and preparation. If we have already met before or you have been recently pre-screened, we can likely schedule a session with shorter notice.

What Type of people do you see?
Who are my clients?
I see people of varying ages, backgrounds and identities, looking to broaden their sensual and emotional horizons. I warmly welcome clients of all ancestry, gender, legal age, religion, ability, experience, and body shape. Please let me know if you require anything in particular to make your appointment accessible and comfortable.

Please note I am low-volume therefore only see a limited amount of clients. If I feel we are not a good fit or that I cannot provide what you are looking for, I may decline the invitation to meet. I will refuse to see you if you are vulgar, rude, or otherwise cross boundaries – I can also immediately end a session without refund if this happens in-person. In order to be my client you must be consistently kind and respectful.

Double Domination
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Consideration is my time + theirs, which can be discussed during booking.

Screening, Deposits, Cancellations
I protect my time, earnings, and safety by using deposits and various methods of screening, at my discretion. This allows me to commit fully to my sessions in advance, knowing that they are firmly fixed in both our schedules, and relax fully in the knowledge that you are who you claim to be, and that our session will be going ahead.

All new clients must be identity-verified. Methods I accept are government-issued photo ID, phone number/email, and workplace verification. References (recently seen and verifiable Dommes or Companions), though not necessary, are considered an asset.

All bookings require a deposit of 20% to secure your appointment in my calendar, which is then deducted from your session total. I incur expenses and decline other commitments when I book a session with you, therefore all deposits are not refundable. The exception being in the unlikely event I were to need to cancel on you, where the deposit can be returned or transfered to a rescheduled session.

Deposits are preferably accepted through electronic transfer or a gift card of my choice, through a discreet email address.

I understand things come up. Should you become ill or need to cancel and reschedule, please try to do so with a minimum of 48 hours notice whenever possible. Time is of the essence! Be aware that notice is calculated from regular waking hours (ie: cancelling late at night will count as cancelling in the morning).

Cancelling with;
48hrs notice or more: There is no cancellation fee. Your deposit may be applied to your next booking if it’s your first time cancelling.
Less than 48 hrs: Deposit is voided.
24 hours or less: Deposit is voided and a cancellation fee of up to 50% may be required to remain in good standing.
No call / No show: Deposit is voided and a cancellation fee of 100% is required.
If you’re running late and haven’t informed me after 15 minutes of our scheduled time, I may consider it a no-show. If excessive lateness results in not being able to accomodate you, my full rate will still be required.


Please try your best to arrive on time. This includes being early or late.
It will be fine if you’re fashionably late – just be aware that our session will not be extended beyond our booked time as a result, unless further patronage is negotiated. My full rate will still be required despite lateness. Please plan accordingly and let me know as soon as possible if there are delays. A phone number will be provided to you to text when you’re nearby or running late.

All of this to say – notice is the key factor.

How do I prepare for a session?
My rate should be prepared beforehand, in an unsealed envelope if possible.

I ask that you bring minimal belongings into the incall. All hygenic and sensual materials are provided. Come prepared with trimmed fingernails and good hygiene. Body hair is perfectly welcome. A shower, toiletries, and mouthwash is available for your use at the incall. Do not floss. I am scent-sensitive, therefore strongly scented colognes or deodorants should be avoided or used sparingly. Please let me know if you have any allergies/sensitivities to scents, pets, food, or drink.

Feeling nervous
Manage your expectations. Try to arrive with an open mind and be optimistic to a new experience. This is your time to unravel however you choose.

Gifts and Tips
Neither are required or expected, though they are always appreciated, so I have put together a list to help with ideas. You can find it here!

You’re welcome to bring treats or drinks to our date; I simply ask that they are previously unopened and sealed if you wish to offer it to me.

Can I bring anything else with me?
I ask that you do not bring any illegal substances into any space I share with you. I do not see clients who are intoxicated or who become intoxicated in-session, or who possess illegal substances in my presence. Although I do not judge those who partake in using illegal substances, I cannot accept the risk that you inevitably cause me when you do this in my presence. Thank you.

I've arrived! Now what?
We’ll be in touch through text, just ping me when you’re here and I’ll welcome you in!

After we exchange introductions and sit down for a brief yet essential consultation, I’ll show you to the shower where you’ll get you so fresh and so clean in the washroom.

Patronage: Before you go to freshen up, please remember to place my rate on a table or nearby surface in my clear view. An unsealed envelope is preferred. Please do not disrupt the mood by mentioning it outloud or requiring me to ask. I’ll tend to it while you’re washing up. If meeting in public, I ask that you present it to me in a gift bag or celebratory card within 2 minutes of meeting.

Freshening up: Wash your hands well, with soap, being sure to clean under your trimmed fingernails. Keep soap on your hands for atleast 20 seconds before rinsing. Use the mouthwash provided to freshen breath. Do not floss.

Showering: Showering upon arrival is mandatory and toiletries are provided. Help yourself to a thorough cleaning before our session, washing your entire body and face, leaving the soap on your skin for atleast 20 seconds before rinsing well. Arrive with clean hair or wash your hair while showering. Afterwards, please leave your clothing and all belongings in the washroom. Simply come out in the provided towel or robe to join me.

Are you reference and review friendly?
Yes! Well, sort of.

I love hearing about your post-session afterglow – and keeping it at that until our next date. Feel free to send me private words of appreciation after our visit! Just keep messages between dates discreet and manageable in quantity. If you’d like to keep in touch more regularly, do inquire about my texting services, club subscription, and digital companionship.

My Review Policy
I am very diligent with professionalism and private details therefore I request that you let me know first if you’d like to write a review. Please get in touch with me if you’re interested in submitting one! Note that I am only accepting reviews/testimonials on Private Delights and do not solicit nor permit reviews on any boards or forums. By submitting your review to me, you agree that I can post it on my website as an anonymous testimonial if I so choose.

I am reference-friendly. If we’ve met within the last year, I am happy to provide an honest reference for you if another provider requires one. Just give me a heads up beforehand.

Virtual Companionship & Digital Content
Digital Content
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  • Find my full-length videos, photosets, personal items, and merch here.
  • My vanilla content can be found here.
  • Inquire for custom videos/photos/audio clips by emailing
Virtual Sessions

I offer virtual sessions and long-distance training to those whom I haven’t yet to meet in-person, as well as established clients who want to stay connected between sessions.

Text / Messaging

Find me on SextPanther.

Interested in something not listed here? Simply get in touch and let me know what you’d like. Fill out my Booking Form or email your inquiry to


I’ve updated the way I conduct in-person appointments in order to prevent the spread of the Covid-19 and keep us both as safe as possible. Our collective wellbeing is important, as is the human need for connection, and I can assure you I am taking informed precautions while continuing to offer quality sessions.

Some ways I do this is by:

  • Following public health recommendations whenever possible (face mask, handwashing, sanitizing, limiting errands).
  • Diligently santizing the incall space.
  • Accepting appointments in a low-volume schedule where dates are spaced 7 days apart. This allows time for follow-up, testing, and contact tracing, if needed.
  • Being fully vaccinated.

I will send you an appointment reminder the day before. If you or anyone in your contact circle may have been exposed to the virus, please let me know and we will reschedule. Please be considerate. Our mutual, informed consent is very important.

New Incall Routine

  • Before you enter the incall, myself and my belongings will be clean and disinfected. I use hypochlorous acid (HOCL) in a spray bottle for disinfecting. HOCL is an eco-friendly and non-toxic solution that is safe for humans, animals, plants and fabrics, and is 100 times more efficient at killing bacteria than chlorine bleach. It is effective against bacteria and viruses outside of the body.
  • Arrive while wearing a face mask and please bring minimal belongings. I will provide hand sanitizer for you to use. I can also disinfect your phone and any necessary belongings, at your request. Wearing a mask after arrival is not necessary.
  • I’ll guide you to the washroom for a shower. Showering is mandatory. Clean yourself thoroughly, including your face. I advise arriving with clean hair or washing your hair at the incall. Please keep the soap on your skin for a minimum of 20 seconds before rinsing well.
  • Come out to join me in the towel or bathrobe provided. 

Routine complete! This will be the new incall routine until further notice. Don’t worry about remembering these steps. I’ll guide you through everything when you arrive.

In addition to the screening, I hope you’re taking the required safety precautions at home and in public, including handwashing and physical distancing/mask wearing whenever possible. If you are experiencing flu-like symptoms between the time we schedule our date and the day we’re supposed to meet, please contact me to reschedule.

I hope this provides you with some peace of mind. Feel free to email me with any questions or concerns.

Booking an Appointment:
Get in touch by filling out my Booking Form or by emailing me at

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