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Eroticism can delight in many realms ; the sensual, thrilling, vulnerable, depraved, bizarre, tender.
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Time with me is an opportunity to play with visceral yearnings, unconventional pleasures, and secret desires.
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So many flavors.
Do you yearn for a sadistic Dominatrix,
Or a powerful, erotic Alpha?
A seductive and coercive femme fatale.
A magnetic Goddess who is out of reach, or intoxicatingly close.
An invasive, clinical, or sci-fi experience.
To be humiliated, controlled, instructed, or teased mercilessly.
To toy with corruption or blasphemy.
Or a nurturing sensual force, coaxing your full surrender
while feeling cared for.
To be adoringly and blissfully in service.
Exploring the unique depths of surrender and transformation.
The observation or destruction of ego.
What do you have to offer?
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Curves, pheromones, scent.
Sensations, or the lack thereof.
unusual or absurd.
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I offer BDSM, Topping, and Fetish sessions in addition to Kinky Companionship, which can be combined together as an Erotic Dominant session or enjoyed exclusively as a BDSM session.
Bespoke adventures on the horizon…
EMPRESS //
EMMA LUMI
Otherworldly Empress
Kinky Companion
Fetish Aficionado
LUMI – (der. luminescent)
A radiant, shimmering light.
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There is an intrinsic relationship between light and dark. They are closely related and at peace with each other, informing and referencing each other. My identity incorporates a similar harmonious balance and My practice honors it.
Ponder new growth emerging after the coldest of winters. Think of the dark vacuum of space being home to blazing stars. My power, balance, and care echoes that of the natural world, and beyond. At times beautiful, nurturing, sensual, and devastatingly cruel.
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Inspired mental-imagery aside, know that I am intentional and seductive. Playfully mischievous and sensually sadistic. Empathetic yet naturally domineering. I have a way of captivating my prey and I genuinely delight in the unique exchange we cultivate. Whether you’re a toy of mine, a devoted and cherished submissive, my dolly, a peculiar specimen, lowly worm, or any other myriad of beings and playthings, I invite you to surrender in my care and craft, or simply play in the Haus of Lumi. There, you will find liberation.
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At a Glance
Height : 5′ 5”
Shoe : 8US
Eyes : Blue-Lavender
Hair Color : Blonde
Based in : Toronto, Canada
(travel available by appointment)
Favorite Things
exploration and discovery
growth and liberation
making you flustered
your face lovingly beneath My feet
playing with control and surrender
fetishists
quality garments, footwear, toys
those who enrich My life
service and denial
hot baths with pink salt + cedar oil
empathy, humility, respect, humour
wishlist : here
An immersive experience built on a foundation of knowledge, honesty, active consent, trust, and mutual respect.
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An intertwined dance of desire, play, power exchange, fantasy and fetish.
custom tailored to indulge our tastes and combined agreement.
: Interests :
Some proclivities as Top/Dominant
Corporal Punishment
- Paddling, Flogging, Riding Crop, Caning
- Hair pulling
- Spanking
- Nipple Torture
- Intimate Torture
Humiliation
- Tease & Denial
- Erotic Embarrassment / Degradation
- Objectification
- Human Furniture
- Cuckolding (w/any gender companion)
- Tickle Torture
- Gags
- Spitting
- Roleplay
Goddess Worship
- Foot, Heel, Boot Worship
- Body Worship
- Armpit Worship
- Smothering
- Denial
- Mesmerize
- Rituals
- Sensual Domination
Sensory Play
- Stockings / Socks / Lingerie / Panties
- Leather / Latex / Fabrics
- Temperature Play (wax/ice)
- Sensory Overload / Deprivation
- Gags / Blindfolds
- Restraint
- Scent Fetish
- Watersports / Golden
- Sploshing / WAM
- Nuru Massage
Training
- Domestic Service
- Chastity / Key Holding
- Instruction / Edging
- Behaviour Modification
- Lifestyle Control
- Maid Training
- Slut Training
- Pet Training
- Gender Exploration
- Feminzation / Masculization
- Encouragment of Bi + Queer Experiences
- Strap-on & Plug Training
- Human Receptacle
Other / Miscellaneous
- Voyeurism / Ignore
- Hand & Glove Fetish
- Medical Fetish / Examination
- Pet Play (puppy, kitty, pony, piggy)
- Mommy / Daddy
- 1920’s – 1950’s Fetish
- Roleplay & Costumes
- Cosplay
- Alien / Monster / Sci-fi
- Blasphemy
- Taboo Fantasies
- Unusual Fetishes
- CFNM (clothed female, nude male – all genders)
- Findomme
- Discreet Public Play / Kinky Shopping / Dinner
- Exploratory Sessions for Beginners
Activities involving actual non-consent, intoxication, and serious bodily harm are not permitted.
My Approach
I craft a judgement-free space to explore and play. I’m open-minded and consider many fetishes, kinks, D/s dynamics, and roleplay scenarios. I practice ongoing, informed consent and risk-aware consensual kink. I approach intimacy and bdsm with this framework, as well as through an identity-empowering, trauma-informed lens. Knowledge, mutual communication, honesty, and care are of utmost importance to me in order to care for us both physically and emotionally before, during, and after our session.
During initial correspondence we will establish a general sense of what you’re looking for, to assess compatibility. If successful, further consultation will be necessary in designing our session, including details such as kink history, likes/dislikes, desires/fantasies, needs (physical+psychological), goals, boundaries, safe words, signals and aftercare – as well as an opportunity to answer any questions or concerns you may have.
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Choose your Experience
Tribute // Session
Although I offer bespoke rates, my base pricing is:
$650-$850 // 1.5 HOURS
$850-$1100 // 2 HOURS
$1100-$1300 // 3 HOURS
$1500 // DINNER & DOMINATION
includes 1.5 hours play
$2500 // FULL DAY & DOMINATION
ie: shopping trip, events, activities
includes 2 hours play
$3500 // OVERNIGHT RITUAL
ie: dinner, play, slumber, morning unfurling – or something else – say… overnight confinement?
$4500 // 24 HOURS
Final tribute will be determined upon consultation.
Inquire for longer engagements and travel requests.
Incall:
Sessions are hosted at a sensuous private studio or a fully-equipped dungeon in downtown Toronto. An appropriate space will be suggested to you based on your desired session.
Outcall:
Outcall sessions are available to downtown +4-star hotels, at my discretion and subject to a travel fee.
Social Engagements:
Wish to be in my presence without the playtime? A walk, drink, dinner, or event – without the domination. My same rate applies.
Virtual Offerings:
I offer texting, videos, photos, and a fanclub subscription. View my FAQ or contact me if you don’t see what you’re looking for.
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” Mesmerizing and powerful in her unique way. “
– kyle6 @PrivateDelights
Spectacular Sensual Domination
” I can honestly say that it was better than I ever could have imagined. She played with all my senses and the buildup was incredible, as it was slow and sensual and had me enticed the entire time. Her feet are extremely soft and she knew exactly what to do with them to drive me crazy. The session was amazing and I would definitely recommend her to anyone who wants a foot fetish experience of a lifetime. “
– TMLfan @ PrivateDelights
Just what I was looking for!
” I can’t stop thinking about what a wonderful time I had!
I have never met someone as naturally sensual and intuitive as you seem to be. You are truly who I was looking for. I followed the screening procedure and had no issues with the required deposit. Once everything was cleared, Emma coordinated a stellar encounter through a few emails. Hint: honesty is key! “
– PackNPlay @PrivateDelights
It was everything I dreamed about
” Emma took the time to consult and explain things to me, and she made me feel safe and protected knowing that I was in her care. I felt very cherished while in service to her. Emma made me feel deeply submissive and it was the exact feeling I have longed for. “
– CityPretty @PrivateDelights
Exhilarating, transcendent domination
” I requested a session where I was merely there for her pleasure, not mine… and she was demanding in such a sensual way, commanding use of every part of me for her satisfaction. “
– Kyle6 @PrivateDelights
How do I know you're real / reputable?
I understand you want to ensure safety, accuracy, and enjoyment, so let me help put you at ease with some quick verification information.
The websites where you will find me require identity verification, including ID and photo verification, at the following sites: Tryst, Onlyfans, Manyvids, SextPanther, and Slixa. All of these websites have my same contact information, links, and website listed, which you can cross-reference if you like.
I’ve invested a lot into building my networks and reputation in the industry. I have worked with verifiable, professional educators, photographers and fellow colleagues in-person, who are tagged and linked throughout my social media. Feel free to take a look at my Twitter and Instagram to get a sense of my presence within the broader community.
I have been practicing lifestyle bdsm for over a decade and have nearly 4 years of professional experience. You can find various user-submitted testimonials here on PrivateDelights.
Discretion and Privacy
Mutual respect, privacy, and discretion are essential.
Please be respectful when contacting me. Your inquiry will not be responded to if you are inappropriately lewd with your language or trying to negotiate my rate.
I correspond with clients on a secure encrypted server. Though it’s not necessary, if privacy & discretion are also your priority, I recommend you email me from an encrypted Protonmail email address. It should take under 2 minutes to sign up for a free account, and this ensures end-to-end encryption. I protect my clients information as if it were my own.
You will receive an appointment reminder via your preferred contact method the day before our appointment. I am able to offer multiple methods for you to send me your deposit based on your discretion needs. Additionally, if you are a notable figure, I am happy to sign an NDA if you provide it.
My private studio and dungeon are relaxed and non-descript. If I visit you, I can dress unassuming and suitable to the setting until we are behind closed doors.
About My Clients
Who are my clients?
I see people of varying ages, backgrounds and identities, looking to broaden their erotic and emotional horizons. I’m happy to see kind and respectful people of any legal age, sex, gender, background, body type or ability. Please let me know if you require anything in particular to make your appointment accessible and comfortable.
Client Health and Safety
Consent and mutual respect are absolutely necessary during our time together.
Please inform me or do not reserve time with me if you have cold symptoms, a skin condition, or any other illness that could be passed along. Cancellation options or safer practices can be discussed if this is the case. Awareness and mutual responsibility in harm reduction practices will minimize risk and contribute to the greater good. Conscious, courteous, and consensual connections – always.
Covid
The incall is kept clean and commonly touched surfaces are disinfected regularly. I require hand sanitizing upon arrival, however face masks aren’t required in session. Please let me know if you would like me to wear one (or any other precaution) and I would be happy to do that.
Screening, Deposits, Cancellations
I protect my time, earnings, and safety by using deposits and various methods of screening, at my discretion. This allows me to commit fully to my sessions in advance, knowing that they are firmly fixed in both our schedules and that our session will be going ahead.
Screening
All new clients must be identity-verified. Methods I accept are government-issued photo ID, phone number/email, and workplace verification. My Booking Form outlines the requirements and assets.
Deposits
All sessions require a minimum deposit of 20% to secure our appointment, which is then deducted from the session total. Deposits are preferably accepted through electronic transfer or a gift card of my choice, through a discreet email address. Please note that I incur expenses and decline other commitments when I book a session with you, therefore all deposits are not refundable. The exception being in the unlikely event I were to need to cancel on you, where the deposit can be returned or transferred to a rescheduled session.
Cancellations
I understand things come up. Should you need to cancel, please try to do so with a minimum of 48 hours notice whenever possible, calculated from regular waking hours.
The result of cancelling depends on the amount of notice given. Results range from putting your deposit towards our next meeting, requiring a new deposit to rebook, or requiring a cancellation fee equal to or less than the session total in order to remain in good standing.
Late Arrivals
Please try your best to arrive on time. This includes being early or late. It will be fine if you’re fashionably late – just be aware that our session will not be extended beyond our booked time as a result, unless a further donation is negotiated. Please plan accordingly and let me know as soon as possible if there are delays. A phone number will be provided to you to text when you’re nearby or running late. If excessive lateness results in not being able to accomodate you, my full rate will still be required.
Thank you for understanding.
How should I Apply?
Initial Correspondence
Inquiries involving listed activities/fetishes must be initiated through my Kink Booking Form, while providing appropriate screening information. No exceptions on my screening requirements. Please include information about your general interests and keep it thorough yet concise; descriptive scripts and long fantasy emails will be ignored. I expect you to be thoughtful, honest, serious and respectful. This is your chance to make a first impression and it will help determine if we’ll be a good fit.
Book in advance to avoid disappointment. This allows time for screening, booking, and preparation. If we have already met before or you have been recently pre-screened, I am available for spontaneous sessions when my schedule allows.
It may feel like nerve-wracking to divulge fantasies or explore them with someone else, but please know that I deeply value exploration and playing with authentic interpretations of what feels erotic, worthwhile, transformational, cathartic, or pleasurable, no matter how seemingly unusual. Don’t worry, we’re going to have fun.
Looking forward to hearing from you!
Don’t see your desired activity or fetish listed? Or have a quick question not found anywhere else within my website or FAQ? In those cases, brief inquiries may be asked with or without sending other screening information to emmalumi@protonmail.ch.
After Applying
If initial compatibility is approved, we’ll discuss the session in greater detail and a deposit will be required. Please be mindful that adding extra requests after having already come to an agreed booking may impede the session from moving forward, or require an extra tribute, depending on what they are.
Do keep in mind I have my own specialties, boundaries and limits, so please be respectful if I decline your proposition and encourage you to find someone who is more fitting for your role. If I feel we are not a good fit or that I cannot provide what you are looking for, I may decline the invitation to meet. In addition to this, if I do not feel comfortable or experienced with any certain particularity, I will not hesitate to inform you and/or decline, in both of our best interest.
Preparing for a Session
Rate
My rate should be prepared beforehand, in an unsealed envelope if possible.
Preparation
The incall and dungeon are each well-equipped with everything we’ll need for out time together. All hygenic and sensual materials are provided. A shower, toiletries, and mouthwash are available for your use. I am scent-sensitive, therefore strongly scented colognes or deodorants should be avoided or used sparingly. Please let me know if you have any allergies or sensitivities to scents, pets, food, or drink.
Gifts and Tips
Neither are required or expected, though they are always noticed and appreciated, so I have put together a list to help with ideas. You can find it here! You’re welcome to bring treats or drinks; I simply ask that they are previously unopened and sealed if you wish to offer it to me.
Can I bring anything else with me?
I ask that you do not bring any illegal substances into any space I share with you. Although I do not judge those who partake in using illegal substances, I do not see clients who are intoxicated or who become intoxicated in-session. Thank you.
After Our Session
I love hearing about your post-session afterglow – and keeping it at that until next time. Feel free to send me private words of appreciation after our visit! Just keep messages between sessions discreet and manageable in quantity. If you’d like to keep in touch more regularly, do inquire about my texting services, fanclub subscription, or virtual sessions.
Review Policy
You can find a handful of published reviews, here. I do not want our private time discussed in public or private forums unless given prior permission. I am private about our time together and expect the same in return. If you enjoyed our time together, I would be happy for you to let me know privately.
References
I am reference-friendly. If we’ve met a couple times within the last year, I am happy to provide an honest reference for you if another provider requires one. Just ask me and give me a heads up beforehand.
Kink & Fetish Booking Form
Mutual privacy, discretion, and trust are of utmost importance to me. Please complete as many fields as possible.
I recommend reading the FAQ before applying to ensure appropriate ettiquette.
If forms aren’t your thing, you may email the same required information to emmalumi@protonmail.ch.
Exhilarating, transcendent domination.
I requested a session where I was merely there for her pleasure, not mine… and she was demanding in such a sensual way, commanding use of every part of me for her satisfaction. Emma is intuitive and beautiful, and I could simply look at her for hours. Mesmerizing and powerful in her unique way.
A true pleasure to make arrangements with, Emma is very respondent in email and communicates in a very clear and concise fashion.
The experience was everything I dreamed about.
My time with Emma was extraordinary to say the least. I had seen her a few times for companion sessions but wanted to explore my submissive side so I booked a beginner’s exploratory session with her… and I could not have picked a better person to help me jump into this new experience.
Emma took the time to consult and explain things to me, and I felt safe and protected in her care. I felt cherished while in service to her. Emma made me feel deeply submissive and it was the exact feeling I have longed for. I cannot wait to delve further into this world with her.